We can’t control these so there’s little reason to worry about them.
And then there are the traits which ARE within our control: our lifestyle choices, our occupation, how we dress and groom ourselves, our health and fitness, our confidence, our lack of neediness, and our behavior. So it helps to find some underlying principles to attraction, a common denominator of all attractive behaviors and qualities (or at least most of them).
It’s not about learning lines or routines or dressing up a certain way.
She looked up at me and there was a moment of silence between us so awkward, you could have stabbed me in the groin and I wouldn’t have noticed. But this time something in me snapped — or not snapped, but rather, something resigned itself.
I sighed and said, “I’m sorry, I was trying to be clever.
It is important to mention that there is not yet any consensus on what attracts women to men.
Science has found dozens of factors, some major, some minor, but there is no overarching model that is agreed upon by everyone. Many of these traits which determine attraction are completely out of our control: genetic make-up, physical features, testosterone levels, social perceptions, where a woman is on her ovulation cycle, etc.
If we feel cared for, respected and admired by her, we pursue a relationship with her.