Dating and cuddling


"If a guy doesn’t want to cuddle he probably doesn’t want you to feel like he’s your boyfriend," he says. Similarly, he could argue that he doesn’t want to lead you on." Hand-holding, he says, is a surefire way to tell if your new date sees you as monogomous girlfriend material. But he may only need more time to get where you are." Ouch.

"Hand-holding for many guys is reserved for monogamous relationships...

To decrease this, you should try using separate sheets and blankets. To decrease this, you should sleep in the largest bed possible." What's notable here is being able to have this conversation without anyone getting upset. If you're digging this person, you should be able to get around their sleeping habits -- and they yours.

Just because someone can't sleep tangled in your sweaty grasp doesn't mean they aren't into you. If you can't sleep well at night, is the relationship really worth it?

You know you're meant to be together when one of you can tell the other to buzz off at bedtime so you can both get a decent night's sleep.