It’s easy to get cynical or withdraw or blame it all on the modern dating marketplace (or worse, yourself!
Everything is a learning experience, every action step has a purpose. That’s probably the overall message and lesson in , and what sets it apart from many others in the pack.
It asks the reader to very deliberately become conscious of who they are, what they want, what they have been missing, what they need, and what they have to give.
There is abundant research that shows that having a supportive, healthy love partnership leads to more happiness than a great job or lots of money.
It’s really at the core of a fulfilling life, which is why we spend SO much time and energy pursuing it.
Attraction is a viewed as both a positive and a negative. And a lot of what Page talks about regarding attraction is recognizing negative patterns (“Deprivations”) and how attractions have worked against you in the past, always with an eye towards making a better futures.