How to reform a player in dating


Selector .selector_input_interaction .selector_input. Selector .selector_input_interaction .selector_spinner. In both cases, we’re hopeless enough to believe we are the beneficiary of fate’s generous hand when we were really the victim of a targeted campaign perpetrated by exploiting our own perceptible cluelessness. The old “the first step is admission” saying is trite but true. In the future, as soon as the player slithers toward you, flashing that million-dollar smile that makes you blush like a school girl, run like a track star on steroids. Neither were the fifty chicks that came before you or the fifty new fools that will follow in your footsteps immediately after he leaves your bed. Neither satisfaction nor a single one of those so-called nine lives brought him back. And for goodness’ sake, don’t tell the player (of all people) how hurt and damaged you are from your past relationship. If he asks about your past relationships, tell him all of your former boyfriends were exactly like him.

When we find ourselves repeatedly targeted by players, wondering why we end up in the same kinds of dead-end relationship relationships over and over again, here are five steps we can all take to break the cycle and find the love we want and the man we need. We really need to acknowledge the fact that we’re in a cycle in order to change our habits. Save your curious energy for something constructive, like researching why you keep seeking out unhealthy relationships. Trust me, he’ll promptly move on to the next potential victim. Act confident, even when your confidence fails you—but don’t be the extreme!

Confidence scares and intimidates players because they don’t know how to handle a woman who can see through their BS.

Got a weakness for that buff babe who treats girls like they're replaceable?

Can't resist his bad boy image and willing to take a chance?

native and an alumnus of the University of the District of Columbia and University of Maryland where she earned a B. A good friend of mine—a reformed player—once told me that in his hound dog days, he could walk into a room of women, sniff out his prey, and easily schedule two hook-ups before the night’s end. He targeted the extremes—the under-confident and overconfident.