Let God take a back seat Unless you are actively seeking a partner of a specific faith, then it is probably a good idea to leave out any religious words in your first message.
That’s not to say you should never mention your religion, but unless it is very important to you, then you can leave it till you meet in person.
It might not sound very romantic, but you can’t argue with stats and figures and following a set of guidelines will probably help you feel more comfortable when sending your first message.
Online dating gives you a bit of an advantage in that you can strategically plan that first message so it hits home with a bit of a punch.
Unlike an everyday face to face meeting where the words just tumble from your mouth in no apparent order.
And just like an ad agency makes a call to action, you can too, by simply asking about an interest or even suggesting a dinner date.
Our subconscious tells us that it’s rude not to answer a question so your chances are increased ten fold by just asking.
The words (if you can call them that) are the top nine worst words to use in an opening message.