Euphoria is the emotional result spurred by the connection. Looking into someone's eyes and thinking, oh my God.
You probably are landing here if you are INTP and have found those basic discussions not entirely helpful or insightful. And it even lets you be a human crane when someone can't reach the teapot on the high cabinet. Clueless Mindfulness barged in and sat right on the birthday cake. They want approval, praise, or their own flavor of understanding. And they want it at the expense of truth, if necessary. All of these observations go into a construct that allows you to be fully prepared for when the truck shows up. And once you have a piece of information, you generally don't forget it. On the other hand, your scatter-brained neighbor can't seem to get his act together to score the ice cream.
The general view of INTPs in relationships goes something like this. Since they aren't in touch with their partners' emotions, they don't give enough emotional reassurance, leaving their partners feeling unloved. (And some of bad ones probably come with a benefit.) For example, extreme height comes in very handy if you want to be a professional basketball player. Being uber-tall, however, also means that you'll have to duck through every doorway you pass your entire life. The same trait that allows you to excel in one context becomes a handicap in another. Mindfulness is a focused mental state in which we are primed and prepared for input and analysis. The string that really didn't let the dart fly very well. If we are experienced with this sort of "mistake," we might even try hard not to speak our mind when we want to deconstruct. That fuel doesn’t resonate with us, but it's very important to them. It has a sibling that multiplies the destruction when the two get together. As an INTP, you probably take note of when the truck tends to come. You note how much you need to have in hand to get what you want. No matter how much emotion he pours into wanting it, he forgets to take care of some part of the equation and royally screws it up. Most people classify emotions as transient reactions.
It is Persistent Reaction injecting bad vibrations into the relationship and revving up a rash of conflict spirals. We need some practical advice to help lasso the twins when they get out of hand.
If nothing else, I'm doing these articles to help INTPs be happier and more effective in the world we have to live in.
So what kind of discipline do we need when the hooligans act up?