You are still good to go, but the men you might be interested in have packed up and gone home. Tough it out for five years and then you too will experience the blessed relief of wondering why you ever made such a big deal of it all.
I think the number of date candidates various by location, and so it may be true that you have no men of appropriate dating age where you are.
So in conclusion, POF is NOT the place for middle aged women. When a man hits 50 - well into middle age - his urge to go plenty-of-fishing kinda wanes.
Gifts bought with login points are private and appear only in email. I'm seriously disappointed in what appears to be the feminist movement in this country.
If you have been added to a user’s favorites list, you can leave a testimonial for him or her. They try to use their sexual prowess instead of their intelligence, which most are seriously lacking, and again, play games.
Users then personalize their profiles with a headline, an essay description, and a list of interests.
An optional essay on first dates is also available.
The only messages I DO get, are from some shot out, circus freak looking men with some serious dental shortcomings, and 22 year olds who obviously have some type of milf fetish happening.